One of the most disappointing things an employee can face in his career is to feel unappreciated and forgotten. You look around the office and it seems like everyone has climbed the corporate ladder, while you’ve been stuck in the same position for years. Then, the worst thing happens– the big break you’ve been working hard for is given to a less tenured employee. Yet again, you were bypassed. You feel terrible.
What do you do next? Do you just sulk and give up on your career? Will you hold a grudge against your boss forever? Will you resign the moment you find another job?
No matter how seemingly awful life’s problems get, you need to pick yourself up and move on.
Life will go on; life has to go on.
Positive Affirmations Won’t Help Solve my Problems!
Yes, keeping a positive outlook in life will not change the situation, but it will totally change the way you look at the situation and the way you react to it.
How in the world can I find something positive to think about, when all I see are problems wherever I look?
- Always be grateful
- Stay away from negative people
Surround yourself with people full of energy and positivity, for these people will influence everything about you, even the way you talk! Go ahead; try spending a day with a whiner. I bet, at the end of the day, you’ll start whining about things you didn’t even complain about before!
- Focus on the silver lining
- Create a positive short-bio about yourself.
Remember the saying, “If it’s not a happy ending, then it’s not the end,” this applies to all areas of life. Make this your go-to positive affirmation; repeat this to yourself every time you feel bogged down by the obstacles in your way.